When people- usually presumptuous straight males- ask me if I am married, I tell them my country does not guarantee my right to marry despite my being a citizen. This usually leads to some confused responses, with the most popular reply being, "what country are you from?"
Same country as you, bozo! We do what we can......alas. These verbal protests may seem trivial but I think they make a difference. Silencing has always been an important part of homophobia so every time we speak back and speak out we come closer to defeating it.
In a recent Huffington blog I read, Evan Derkacz, wrote about his decision to no longer recognize any marriages until Gay marriage is recognized. Reading his blog gave me renewed resolve to continue to do the same. But I think we should ALL do it!
Are you ready, people? Remove the words: wife, husband, spouse, and fiance out of your vocabulary. They don't exist. Replace them with girlfriend, boyfriend, lover, companion. You could even try out "roommate" for kicks...for all the couples involuntarily closeted by their parents.
If we could get millions to do this, then the same straight people would hear it over and over again. If they got to feel what it was like to have the legitimacy of their union questioned over and over, it might sink in!
We can only hope!
Lets all try it and see what happens. Spread the word!
Come back to this blog and comment on what happens.
2 comments:
Heading out. Let you know what language hoops happen. Thanks for this post.
I absolutely agree.
We can't have double standards..
Hey I caught this blogging spot via Blendjournal..how come you don't post your blogs over at blendjournal?
This is one that would bring a lot of talk about..
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